Today has been a special day. My Uncle David had his first birthday in Heaven. I haven't written about my experience with his passing yet because I've been having a hard time with it. I just kept asking myself why it had to happen to him, why it had to happen to his family. He passed away from complications due to lung cancer. He always kept the Word of Wisdom to a "T," so it seemed so strange that his body would fail him in this way. The only way I can make sense of it is that Heavenly Father needed him up there more than we needed him down here. I can only imagine the marvelous work he is doing up there!
Tonight Mary, Tessa, and I had a birthday part for him. It was so great! We made a cake, lit up the candles and sang our little hearts out. When the candles were out and there was that birthday candle smell I was flooded with memories of birthdays around their table, David at the head. He always made sure we sang the song quick and with gusto! No song was ever finished without the follow up phrase: "What a windjammer!"
The cake :)
A quick memory of cakes with Uncle David: When Tess and I were in jr. high we were up at David and Sally's when he asked us if we'd ever made a cake. Neither of us had… So he promised us that each time we made a cake we would get more good lookin'--that's why his wife was so pretty! Obviously I haven't made enough cakes yet…haha! I'm sure he was proud at how quick I whipped up this cake :)
This next picture is one of my favorites. It was the first time we went to visit him at the hospital after his stroke. I remember talking to him as he squeezed my hand. As I was about to leave he brought my hand up to his lips. I started bawling, but was filled with so much hope! I knew he was going to recover and be back to his normal, happy self.
We went and visited him again after he was transferred to the rehab unit. This visit we actually got him to laugh! It was so exciting! I told him a story that my dad had just told me about his football days at Ricks. My dad's coaches had gone to one of Snow College's games and watched David play. They were very impressed with David and brought my dad in to talk to him. The coach asked my dad if he was as fast as David. My dad replied: faster. They asked if he was as big as David. His reply: 10 pounds bigger. The conversation went on and my dad was so thankful that his brother played so well because after that he became the punt returner. This story now has a special place in my heart because I heard Uncle David laugh for the last time.
As the semester went on and I was down here at school I called my mom everyday for an update on David. Most of the time I was in tears. It was tough on his family and my heart was breaking for them. I was having a hard time dealing with this reality and as I tried to put myself in their shoes I couldn't even imagine the heartbreak they were experiencing. Sometimes things just don't work out the way we want them to, but the Lord is in charge and He knows what is best for us. Healing definitely didn't happen overnight, and I am still receiving comfort each day. It seems though whenever I think of him, a picture of him laughing pops into my head. He was always the happiest guy and I imagine he's even happier now that he's back with our Father in Heaven.
Uncle David and his sweetheart. What an amazing woman she is! I can't think of a stronger, more loving and caring person.
Aren't they perfect?!
I know that Uncle David wants us to be happy down here. He wants us to love one another. He wants us to find peace. I know we can find that peace through our Savior, Jesus Christ. He knows exactly how we are feeling. He can comfort us and help us find peace if we will let Him. So, Happy Birthday Uncle David! I hope I made the right wish for you :) I love you!
